Christmassy George

Today’s post is about one of the most popular monuments in the Green Lawn Cemetery of Columbus, Ohio. It’s not one of my favorites, but it’s been coming up an awful lot for the last couple weeks, so I thought I’d post about him. Let me open ‘er out by quoting an AP article featured in the Columbus Dispatch in December. (Original/complete article can be seen here: http://www.dispatch.com/live/content/local_news/stories/2009/12/23/george.ART_ART_12-23-09_B1_UDG3A4V.html?sid=101)

As a light snow fell yesterday at Green Lawn Cemetery, someone made sure 5-year-old George Blount was dressed warmly. George, who was decked out in a Santa hat and plaid scarf, has been a fixture at Green Lawn since 1873. For years, visitors have decorated his grave site, which is marked by a life-size stone statue of a young boy. No one who works at Green Lawn knows who decorates the grave. Sandi Latimer, volunteer coordinator at the cemetery, said George’s grave is near the back, making it easy for decorators to slip in unnoticed. . . . Latimer affectionately refers to him as “Georgie” and says his grave is a frequently requested stop when she conducts tours of the cemetery. . . . Linda Burkey, the cemetery’s general manager for 13 years, said that as long as she has been there, George’s grave has been decorated. “Out of all the other graves, his is the most decorated,” Latimer said as she removed the hat and scarf. She said she has to remove the items because they can hold in moisture and harm the statue. Yesterday, stuffed animals lined the base of the marker. Water guns, action figures and Hot Wheels cars were scattered around, as well. A fresh candy cane rested in his lap. “I’ve found all kinds of things: Mardi Gras beads, baseball caps — even sunglasses on him in the summertime,” Latimer said. Gary Best, a German Village resident, was there yesterday, walking his dogs, Gabriel and Wheezer. “I think it’s interesting that, after all these years, people still put stuff out there,” he said. “It’s a sad story, and I guess people are just fascinated with that.” Latimer added: “Almost every cemetery has something that plays on the heartstrings of the public. And here, it’s little Georgie.”

 Now, “Georgie” hasn’t been of a lot of interest to your local Headstoners here, for whatever reason. He is buried in a part of Green Lawn we don’t traverse much. The first time we came across him, we didn’t know there was any kind of a story about him. I just remember exclaiming because the statue held an A&W root beer can. The picture on the right here of George with the flowers is one of my favorites, though. This I find tasteful and even pleasant. (I have a long rant at the bottom about people leaving junky stuff on this grave; if you’re likely to be offended by that, please skip over that part and have a great day!) As just a quick side note, I would point out that the Headstoners are not aware of any ghost stories or hauntings in association with this grave stone.

George in the Springtime

 Now, the story of George goes back 137 years–as of this Sunday, actually.

“Little Georgie,” as some refer to him, was the only child of Eli and Sarah Blount. Eli was the owner and proprietor of the American Hotel in downtown Columbus. On 7 February 1873, the family was getting ready to go out and little George, only 5 years old, decided that the fastest way to get downstairs was to slide down the bannister. Sadly, the railing broke and George fell; he died eight days later,

 writes Amy Crow of Amy’s Genealogy, etc., blog. She adds, in a nice touch, I think,  ”People regularly leave toys at his grave. . . . It’s almost as if he’s been adopted by countless people in central Ohio.”

"Our Georgie"

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There are a few things in the lives of the Headstoners that really create that moment where a large choir dressed in ornate robes steps out from some unknown hammerspace and begins a rousing sustained note of biblical proportions, but getting to visit the inside of Green Lawn Abbey was one of those.

Green Lawn Abbey

Green Lawn Abbey -- Dec. 27, 2008

While we had been to the massive Green Lawn Cemetery independently over the years, that first time we pulled down Greenlawn Avenue together in the late summer of 2003, we knew someday we’d have to get in and see the abbey. However, we’re what I call sensible (Megan calls it scared) and seeing as I get caught every time I do something I shouldn’t, we knew better than to attempt to gain access. Once we did pull up through the beautiful circular driveway, but that was scary enough for me.

The Headstoners in front of Green Lawn Abbey

The Headstoners pose Oct. 24 in front of historic Green Lawn Abbey in Columbus before taking part in the Tales from the Crypt program.

Though we drove by at later dates and saw the doors open, we did no more than dare to snap a picture (that I can’t even find now). Then slowly the security grew tighter and alarms were installed and it really became out of the question–rightfully and thankfully so.

Thus the reason we pounced (almost literally) on the opportunity to tour it as part of the fantastic Tales from the Crypt program put on Oct. 24 by the Green Lawn Abbey Preservation Society. The best part being we not only finally got to see the inside of that haunting structure, but we also got to meet several of its residents live and in person. They even came to visit in their own clothing and agreed to share their stories. Very nice of them!

I wish I had pictures of the inside, which was even prettier and imposing than we expected, but the sad reality is that while some people like us simply want to marvel at the fixtures without touching, others are simply looking to make a buck and are willing to take advantage of anyone and everyone. Our visit was within days of the disturbing theft of several of the bronze gates from inside, the second in about a week, so no pictures were allowed to be taken inside as they were trying to keep updated photos off the Internet. Of course, we were about the only people who actually listened to this rule… so maybe you can find some. No respect anymore, I tell you. Thankfully some of them were later found when the thief tried to sell them at a pawn shop.

Keep out!Over all, it was a great experience! It was everything we had hoped for and more. The preservation society is doing really good work, and one of these days we will become unlazy enough (or unbusy… plus, living an hour from Columbus doesn’t help) to actually join and start helping. There’s been a lot of work to fix it up that is still continuing, which is why they are actively trying to recruit even more people. They’ve planned the second annual membership meeting at 6:30 p.m. Tuesday, Feb. 16, at the Banana Bean Cafe, 340 Greenlawn Ave., Columbus, which is across from Berliner Park. As of now we can’t make it, but would love as many readers as possible to go. They recommend arriving before 6 to order food and drinks from the cafe that features soup, salad and sandwiches.  The meeting is basically to hear about what happened in 2009 and the goals for 2010, and a chance to sign up for committees and programs. Reservations are requested to greenlawnabbey@aol.com. You can also visit http://www.greenlawnabbey.org/ for more information as well as pictures of both the outside and inside during the day.

Other than that, please do like the picture says and stay the heck out! There is nothing that justifies theft, especially from a historic place such as this. You can see the rest of our pictures from the trip at our photo site: http://headstoner.shutterfly.com/558.

There are plenty of topics I could cover, but since I feel like this blog is turning into a Green Lawn fest, I’ll save Chapel Stories for another day. (Incidentally, Green Lawn is our official unofficial alma mater, so it is appropriate for us to discuss it a lot, but I’ll give it a break for once. I will touch on it just a teensy bit, though.)

First of all–and I’ll keep my Green Lawn reference brief–today would have been my great-grandfather’s 121st birthday, and somehow that just boggles my mind. There is a precident for people who have lived to be even 122. To think that I might easily have been able to of met my great-grandfather in my life just kind of amazes me–particularly since I’m one of those people who has only one grandparent alive today–most of them, along with my great-grandparents, went decades before I was born.

Anyway, he’s on my list of favorite dead relatives, very high on that list, and definitely the one I’m the most obsessed with. His parents came over from Germany, he spelled his name in an unusual way, and within five years of his wife running off with the electrician, he and his brother died together in a gasoline fire. So here’s to my Grandpa Mathew, who died a little too early for me to meet him, but still deserves notice on his birthday.

Mathew Miller

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In otherwise-ness, I’ve forgotten my topic. Oh, there it is. Yes, I would like to just have quick little outburst about something cemetery-related but not exactly. It’s about post-mortem photography. That’s right, folks, I took it there. (more…)

fran-gre-dscn54451I have been preoccupied with the C. H. Hayden mausoleum pretty much since we started frequenting Green Lawn when I was a child. The first time I saw it, a seven-year-old anklebiter, I thought a president was buried there, or someone as important. It was a veritable Taj Mahal–and still, four or five of the standard tombs located around Green Lawn could fit inside this edifice, easy. It was constructed in 1904 and sits in the center of the cemetery by the lake. Most of my information on it comes from Andy at ForgottenOH.

Additionally, it marks the spot of pretty much the beginning of mine and Kristine’s first real cemetery exploit. It was September of 2003 and we were driving to Columbus. On the way down, I received a phone call telling me I was out of a job. I was more surprised than anything else, and to celebrate, we decided to have a picnic. This was unusual for us, to say the least; we swung through KFC and then tried to decide where to eat. Somehow we decided to go to Green Lawn; somehow we wound up on the steps of Hayden’s mausoleum. We settled down with a pretty decent spread of southern-fried goodness: crispy chicken, baked beans, coleslaw, biscuits. We speculated on the identity of “C. H. Hayden” and worked on a novel in a notebook.

I don’t remember anything else about that, but four months later, we were back with a video camera, and somewhere in the foggy interim, an obsession was born. Now every time we visit Green Lawn, we swing by to say hello to Hayden, even though we’ve learned a few things about him since.

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This is the final resting place of Columbus banker Charles H. Hayden . . . and seven other people, apparently. At least potentially. Actually, nothing but vagueness surrounds both the potential interments here and the ghost story apparently related to it. All I know for sure is that the tomb was comissioned in 1904 and Chuck died shortly after. There are a lot of . . . actually, there aren’t a lot of stories. There’s just one story. That story says that if you knock on the door, someone will knock back. There is a tantalizing rumor about a potential “more substantial manifestation,” too, but no evidence as of yet to actual existance of the same.

Here is one fruitless attempt to get a response from Hayden, me from July of this year:

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As can be expected, he wasn’t home. Here’s another, video this time, from just this month:

As you can see, the old boy has yet to respond to me. But . . . someday I may get lucky! Apparently there is also the ghost of a little boy who hangs around crying, but I’ve never seen him, either.

What about you? Any ghost stories?

I grew up in Columbus, Ohio. Which is basically notable as being home to one of the best cemeteries of the Midwest: Green Lawn Cemetery, est. 1848. It’s also a splendidly large one, boasting 150,000 interments on 360 acres [1] [2].

Columbus in the Background

I grew up in a Columbus suburb, and my dad was an avid birdwatcher. So, on nice days, my sister would troop out to Green Lawn with my parents and spend an afternoon entertaining ourselves while Dad went scouting whatever bird was on the list that week. Invariably, we parked near the lake next to the Wolfe Family Plot, where my sister would attempt to get me to look into the windows of tombs and then scare me after I had done so. One particular hobby of mine was cleaning markers off and leaving offerings of clover blossoms and dandelions.

Of course I was aware of the fact that I had relatives buried here. My father’s mother, Mawmaw, died before I turned seven, and I attended her funeral there with the family; my mother’s dad died before I was born, but I had a vague notion that he was there, too, along with some other shadowy personages I understood to be “the German grandparents” (actually my great-great grandparents on my mother’s side). But we didn’t really ever go to visit them and genealogy wasn’t as high on my list at age nine as chasing gophers was.
For a long time, my visitation of cemeteries kind of fell off. But then in 2003, something sparked it again–maybe it was reading ghost stories on websites like Forgotten Ohio. But then I began to visit again–and look on websites to find more to visit. And suddenly everything cemetery was interesting. This sparked an intense fascination with genealogy and a quest to locate all of my relatives buried there in Green Lawn, leading to me spending a great many weekends not only there but also in other cemeteries.
I’m super excited about this website because it’s finally a real chance to share stories about some of the great cemetery adventures Kristine and I have gone on in the last five years–including our recent summer quest while working on our book Grounds & Grounds — which is a topic for another day!
So bookmark us and stick around. Death’s about to get really, really interesting roundabout here real soon!

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